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By analyzing your answers to the Relationship Questionnaire we have created the following Personality Profile. Everyone has a set of subconscious wants and desires that drive their choices and attitudes. By asking you questions about a wide range of emotional issues, this report has established general patterns in your values.

Some of the following information may seem inaccurate or incomplete. Remember, that this profile is a snapshot of your personality at a specific moment. It is not intended as an in-depth analysis of your complete being, but as a tool to aid in self-discovery.


-You usually participate in whatever social group you belong. You're not a "wallflower"--you like to meet people, generate group enthusiasm and provide an open environment for communicating.


-You have a strong sense of humor. You usually know when to lighten a difficult situation, amuse and entertain people.


-You have to be with people. This extends into the need to gain popularity, achieve social recognition and influence those people around you. The "bottom-line" is a strong people orientation.


-You may act on impulse. If someone or something catches your eye, you may act without first checking things out.


-You have a strong feeling of optimism, considered favorably by most people around you. Your perception is that the bottle is half-full rather than half-empty.

-Each person has a unique way of communicating. We use a combination of body language, facial expression, verbal tone and word choice to share ourselves with others. The following statements offer a look at the natural behavior you bring to an interpersonal relationship.


-You show sympathy to the feelings and needs of others. Your natural empathy style may draw others to you.


-One of your great strengths is your ability to communicate and talk readily. Since all strengths may be overused at times, you may sometimes talk too much.


-You have a natural, outgoing style that some have labeled as the "natural salesperson." You are generally likable, talkative and socially assertive. Your primary intent is convincing or persuading people.


-You are a natural communicator. You love to talk, offer jokes and make sure that everyone is having a good time. This trait is especially evident at functions and outings.


-You tend to be fluent and verbal. You like to verbalize and to participate with many people.


-You can generate enthusiasm in yourself and in other people. Your enthusiasm, often contagious, involves many people in a social activity who might not ordinarily become involved.


Many different factors determine the communication styles with which you are most comfortable. Some individuals thrive on the challenge of pointed criticism, while others are at their best in a nurturing environment where criticism is offered as a suggestion for improvement. Each of us has a unique set of requirements and preferences. Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.


-Be brief and bright in language and ideas.


-Ask for opinions and ideas.


-Verify that the message is understood.


-Be stimulating, fun-loving, and fast-moving.


-Be prepared to listen to many stories.


-Leave plenty of time for socializing and relating.


-Understand sporadic listening skills.


-Attempt to isolate from interruptions.


-Plan interactions which support dreams and goals.


-Offer immediate rewards for accomplishments.


Following are some of the specific strengths and/or personal characteristics that you bring to a relationship. These may form the foundations of many of your friendships and dealings with other people. Some will seem obvious, but you may be surprised by others. Take a moment to reflect on each and consider what role it may have played in your past successes, and even failures.


-You tend to excite others into getting involved with your interests.


-You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.


-You are socially poised and people-oriented.


-You have the ability to juggle lots of time demands simultaneously.


-You are usually enthusiastic about activities and planning.


-You have a quick wit and a great sense of humor.


-You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.


-You are optimistic and tend to make others feel good about themselves.


-You have an excellent sense of humor and tend to see humor in events spontaneously.


-You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.


In general, human beings are defined by their needs and individuals by their wants. Your emotional wants are especially important when establishing with whom you are compatible. While answering the Relationship Questionnaire you established a pattern of basic, subconscious wants. This section of the report was produced by analyzing those patterns. Our wants change as we mature and obtain our life goals. You may find it valuable to
revisit this section periodically to see how your wants have changed.

You may want:

-Many and varied activities.


-Popularity.


-Exposure and recognition by those who really appreciate your results and achievements.


-An outlet to vent your emotions frequently.


-Social recognition of your accomplishments.


-Acceptance in a variety of groups.


-Freedom from many rules and regulations and the ability to write your own rules.


-Recognition of skills and ability.


-No close supervision--you don't want people to hang over your shoulder.


-A support system to help you get things done.


-To be measured by the results obtained, not by the manner in which those results were accomplished.

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ANDROGYNE
Your score placed you in the category of Androgyne. This is the true middle of the road, neither butch nor femme

You are the best of both worlds, and have absolutely no feeling of being either femme or butch. You see yourself as "you" and that's all that matters. You dislike labels, surprised yourself by even taking this test, and are now laughing as you identify with this definition!

You switch roles fluidly without thinking from nurturing/subordinate to providing/leading as the situation demands. You are often a jack or jill of all trades and master of a few, but not all.

In clothing you go for the practical, not always bothering with the concept of neatness if that interferes with comfort or the time it takes to get dressed. Wrinkles don't drive you crazy, though you do prefer to keep reasonably up to date in your style, without going to any extreme in it.

You are shy in many ways, being intimidated by overt aggression as well as complete silence in a conversation. You tend to babble to fill silent space and clam up when confronted.

Odds are good astrologically that you are a Libra, Pisces, Gemini, or Aquarius.

You're willing to try anything once as long as it does not pose a risk to you. You're also good at doing just about any job, as long as you find a way to get trained for it. Physically, you're average in fitness, not being overly concerned about being either "curvy" or "chisled". If you are female and have some endowments, you wear a bra in public but not at home.

For partners you are comfortable with all types, for you are a peacemaker and changeling at heart, changing yourself to fit the situation and avoid hostility. You aren't a doormat, though, and do express your opionions.

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